Written by | Posted September 8, 2015 – 9:51 pm Descent and Ascent

It didn’t take long to get from Thunder Bluff to the Echo Isles – Ankona took advantage of a wyvern so she could think and plan before getting to her destination. She had information to confirm with the spirits – was Gromnor dead? Was he really in the northern part of the Eastern Kingdoms, somewhere […]

Recommended Reading
comment 1 Written by on August 25, 2009 – 9:37 am

A few things have popped around in my feed reader lately that I think are worth plugging!

WoW Comic in 60 Seconds – the Old Dirty Druid

Aleros puts the WoW comic into quick review for those of us without the time/money/inclination to read through all of the episodes.  I think there are around 20 by now.  As someone who really doesn’t particularly enjoy reading comics or graphic novels (don’t shoot me, please!), I appreciated this post.  It’s enough to catch you up on what happened in the interim, but not too detailed.  Good lorebait.  Thanks Aleros!

Be Careful What You Rant About – Blunt Trauma (Zalbuu)

Ok – so I’m only really responding to one part of this post, and that’s the bit about the ToC boss Faction Champions.

ICly it’s hard enough to swallow for Aely.  But from an OOC standpoint I find this fight incredibly frustrating.  Not because I don’t enjoy it – it’s a real challenge, and I like PVP (even occasionally Arena PVP).  Unfortunately, this is not true of all characters.  And if people don’t like fighting PVE bosses, it’s pretty easy to just PVP your days away and totally ignore that side of the game.

It unfortunately doesn’t work the other way around anymore, and people that have no interest in PVPing, some of whom have, in fact, never set foot in so much as an AV match, are now having to learn the skillsets for that kind of fighting on the fly in a rather difficult trial by fire.

And those of you that do a lot of PVP will note that there are some things that only practice makes easier.  Learning what is and isn’t an emergency.  Learning that if you don’t fix it, nobody else will.  Learning to use cooldowns – and what cooldowns – and when.  Learning how to see /everything/ around you as potential Death on Wheels.  The situational awareness is very different, and that’s good and fun for those of us that enjoy it, but it’s very difficult to teach and comes with quite a learning curve.

Unfortunately it’s frustrating and annoying for people who don’t enjoy it.  (And repair bill inducing for everyone else in those groups).

Main, Meet Alt.  Love On – WTT: RP

‘cause it’s truth.

Isle of Conquest Review – Arrens, Through the Eyes of Death

Another PVP oriented post, but this time a quick overview of the new battleground.  It’s fun!  And Arrens, as usual, explains it in a nice, quick, easy to understand way.

If you have a fun, informative, interesting, controversial, or otherwise plug-worthy post, feel free to link it in the comments!  Consider this a Shame Free Zone when it comes to plugging your own (or anyone else’s) stuff – just please mark any spoiler content well!

PVPers aren’t asshats – Asshats are asshats.
comment 13 Written by on August 21, 2009 – 10:54 am

In WoW, there are categories.

Categories of players, categories of guilds, categories of groups and instances and gear and all kinds of things.

Some of those categories are easy – This is a 5 man dungeon; That is a 25 man dungeon. This is cloth armor; That is mail armor. This server follows the PVP ruleset; That server follows the PVE ruleset.

Those are concrete categories.

Categorizing players, however, is harder. What is Hardcore?  What is Casual?  Does Hardcore mean “has defeated Yogg-Saron”, regardless of hours spent during the week?  Does “Casual” mean “has never been in a raid”, even if that player is online several hours every day? And what about categories that “overlap”?

The subtitle of this blog is “Because Raiding and Roleplay are not Mutually Exclusive” – obviously I overlap in those two categories.  I also spend some time every week PVPing.  I have pretty good gear, and a fair chunk of resilience.  Does that make me a PVPer?

Arguably, this kind of thing is what makes WoW successful.  Whether you want PVP, raiding, small groups, instancing, alts, or just to bum around fishing with your friends, there’s a place for you in the game.

So Where’s the Problem?

The problem comes when one category of players decides that another category of players is “insert derogatory term here”.

Everyone has a category, to other players.

If you stand in Krasus’ Landing on your Rusted Proto Drake with your full set of hardmode epics… you will get labeled as a raider. And if you ask someone that’s never been in a raid before, reads the forums all the time, and hangs out in trade chat what that means?  I’m pretty sure you won’t like their description of you.

If you’re not around in major “primetime”, do a few pugged instances, and try to give advice to a player in a high end raiding guild working on hardmodes, you might not like their reaction either.

You and they have different goals. You have different experiences of the game. And whether those category associations are right or wrong, we all butt up against them from time to time.

Unfortunately that leads to the point of this post – and something that really, REALLY burns my toast.

“Other” ness

Ok – so maybe someone’s never met a high end raider that’s not an elitist asshat.

And so they make a huge blanket statement, in front of me or directly to me, about how all high end raiders are asshats that care about nothing but epics, and their raid leaders are all immature jerks that know nothing about the game.  Most likely this is done with some kind of commiserative feeling, as though I will support them in this bashing.

I then respond “Well, I may not be in a server first guild, but I’m in a pretty high end progression raid, and generally I don’t think I’m an asshat that cares about nothing but epics, and I help lead a raid in which I’m pretty careful to either know my stuff or know who to ask about something I’m unfamiliar with.”

To which I get the reply “Well, not YOU Anna, YOU’RE not like that.”

Think about that for a second. So you expect me to take part in the bashing of a group to which I belong (raiders) and to vilify them further by making myself into some kind of raider but not-like-them raider?

It’s not a complement – and it doesn’t make the situation “better”.  I raid. I spend 7 hours a week in a 25 man raid and 4-5 (ish) in a 10 man. I work my butt off during those hours, plus the time I spend outside raid helping with rosters and strategies and making sure I’m doing the best I can with my class to keep up with where we want to be.

I’m not going to turn my back on that to commiserate about how all raiders are jerks.

I’ve done a lot of things in this game. I’ve been a nub, a raider in several different “levels” of raids, a casual, a “hardcore” (timewise, but not raiding wise), a RPer, a PVPer, an alt-leveler, a pugged healer in an instance and a healer lead for a 25 man raid; I’ve played Alliance and Horde.

And guess what?

There is not one group that “wins” on being jerks, asshats, immature, inappropriate, epix-hording, ninja-looting bastards.

So when you find yourself face to face with one of those Immature, Jerkish, Inappropriate, Epix-hording, Ninja-looting Bastards?  Take a minute, and before you tar everyone in what you think their “category” is (‘cause you might be wrong about that too), take a deep breath, and step back.

‘cause YOU certainly aren’t all of those awful things that other people say about your category.

Maybe you’re a casual player, but not a baddie.  Maybe you LOVE PVP, but you’re not a competitive jerk that spams shit in the BG channel.  Maybe you’re a great writer and RPer and you don’t engage in ERP/cyber.  Maybe you’re a raider that’s part of a group of friends that laughs and jokes and has trouble with giving away loot because everyone is too concerned with making the group better and making sure other people get the best upgrades too.

Take yourself outside of your own experience for a minute – sure, you are absolutely right to get mad at and never group again with said ninja-looting dimwit. And if they are doing something particularly despicable, you should report them to their guild leader or to a GM depending. But your experience does not define the entirety of the game.

“I don’t like PVP because it’s frustrating and not very fun” is very different from “I hate PVP because everyone that does PVP is an immature, e-peen waving 12 year old.”

Raiders are people who Raid.  RPers are people who RP. PVPers are people who PVP.

And PEOPLE are sometimes wonderful, and sometimes awful.

It’s not their category that makes them that way.  It’s their humanity.

comment 4 Written by on August 20, 2009 – 11:42 am


Aely, with Maera, who is prancing around like a 3 year old in her new Argent Barding.

I have a secret…
comment 14 Written by on August 19, 2009 – 10:01 am

It’s a very timely little secret, given the near-fanatical ravings flying around recently about what may or may not be be happening in the upcoming expansion and whether it does or does not suck and if it may or may not totally destroy the game.

I’m not interested in the WoW news that will get announced at Blizzcon.

Quite frankly, I don’t really care. I haven’t even read the “leaks” posted on MMO-Champion!

Now – before you tar and feather me for being a heretic that doesn’t worship at the feet of the next expansion, hear me out on this one.

I’m not interested in the next expansion because I’m too busy playing this one.

I’ve got RP to work out, raids to help organize, healing to do, alts to level, and just frankly too much stuff that I want to do NOW in Wrath of the Lich King.  We’re learning a new instance, Aely’s knee deep in RP (and seriously worried about something called “Yumm-Saron Veggie Stew”… don’t ask), and Annie Mae is just about ready to transition into Outland.

The next expansion will come soon enough.  And when it gets here, I want it to be new and exciting.  I want to be surprised by things, and enjoy the discovery of just what all has happened since we pwnt Arthas (which we haven’t even DONE yet).

Planning out how my class will or won’t work in an expansion that WILL change drastically between now and it’s release is a waste of my time. I can do all the planning I want – and then see it all go up in smoke when someone changes their mind later on.

So I’m not interested in knowing every nitty gritty detail of the next expansion.  Doing so steals a lot of the joy that I get out of discovering things on my own.  It’s the same reason I don’t play on the PTR, or do new bosses on the test realms.

Will I read about it?

Eh – a little, if I get bored and am not getting bombarded by OMG BLIZZCON constantly. I might even talk about it with a few friends, because, as a blogger, I really do need to keep on top of the major currents of the game.

Will it get forced on me from every angle, resulting in my dropping out of chat channels, not logging in to twitter, and avoiding chatrooms for a week so I don’t have to listen to the same info get hashed and rehashed and rehashed over and over again?


I realize that this secret that I have is an unusual one – that “everyone” loves patch notes, loves to speculate wildly, to spend hours getting their blood pressure up about how some change is AWFUL or AWESOME or OMG – but I’m not “everyone”. If reading about patch notes and making crazy speculations and drooling over the new expansion announcements makes you happy?  Go for it!  There are many people that will enjoy the same kinds of discussions!

I want to enjoy what I have now, and I’ll enjoy what’s coming when it gets here.

(My other secret is that I /am/ looking forward to the information about Diablo III that will be coming at Blizzcon.  I’m not actively playing Diablo right now, and I’m looking forward to the new game releasing sometime next year or so.  But I still won’t be compulsively refreshing the webpages or watching the live feed for it! We have months to read about and get used to these changes!)

Descent and Ascent

September 8, 2015 – 9:51 pm

It didn’t take long to get from Thunder Bluff to the Echo Isles – Ankona took advantage of a wyvern so she could think and plan before getting to her destination. She had information to confirm with the spirits – …

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August 4, 2015 – 12:22 pm

An old story, reposted here as I’m shaking the mothballs off Ankona and needed an easy way to show people a little bit about the (batshit) things she gets up to. Enjoy, and don’t be too creeped out!

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November 13, 2014 – 12:30 pm

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November 11, 2014 – 3:09 pm

What a long strange trip it’s been. I’ll be the first to admit that, at the beginning, I wasn’t sure Pandaria was going to be for me. I’ve made clear my dislike of daily quests, and that seemed to be …


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Introducing the Newest Anna

June 29, 2014 – 4:39 pm

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November 19, 2013 – 4:46 pm

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The Hand of Lothar, they call themselves.

Yva Darrows was their first target.

Tirith and Aely were their second and third.

They have since… expanded their reach and escalated their methods …

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