November 30, 2012 – 8:32 am
Your character has unlimited funds and unlimited space to make their dream abode.
- Is it in the city or country? What zone, if you could pick one?
- Big or small? What does it look like?
- Is it cluttered and crazy or clean and neat?
- Do they share it with anyone/anything?
- Do they live there all year, or is it a seasonal home?
November 29, 2012 – 8:28 am
I’m here today to talk to you all about a very serious problem I see in the RP community – RPer disease. I don’t know any roleplayer who doesn’t suffer bouts of this infection, and while not exactly contagious it seems to come in waves. It’s a serious problem with potentially epidemic proportions, and something we should all be on the lookout for.
What is RPer Disease?
It’s the disease that makes people say things like “I never RP because I’m not good enough” or “I don’t know why people RP with me, I’m really bad at it” and “I’m a terrible writer, I don’t know why you people put up with my additions to your stories” or worst yet “I really want to RP but I’m afraid I’ll be bad at it so I don’t try.”
RPer disease can infect you in lots of ways. It can show up as straight-up fear, your inner editor, or self-doubt, or a lack of confidence, or getting outside your comfort zone, or being new, or whatever.
There is only one cure for RPer disease, and that’s actually getting out and roleplaying. I know that seems counterproductive, but console yourself knowing that every single roleplayer goes through periods of suffering from this disease.
We all get it. Even the people we think would never feel that way, the people who are so good at roleplay, who craft amazing stories and have great characters and ideas. Even the best roleplayers sometimes feel like that too.
I get over it by not letting the disease ruin my fun. When I feel myself starting to come down with a case of RPer disease, I have to face it head on. Take a deep breath, log in, maybe voice my fears to a sympathetic friend, and then jump headlong into the story.
Your character doesn’t get RPer disease, it’s a disease that infects players. Let your character help you beat it back.
It may never fully go away, but see it for what it is. A pestilence. A plague of self-doubt and fear that does not serve your abilities, nor does it fairly represent what you’re capable of doing. If you find yourself with symptoms, know that, like the common cold, we all suffer from RPer disease, but it’s far from terminal. You can overcome it with creativity, stubbornness, and a good dose of story. You can even enlist some friends to have a pub night – it doesn’t have to be a big elaborate story, just enough to get your brain involved and the creative juices flowing.
Refuse to be put out of commission by RPer disease!
November 27, 2012 – 8:20 am
I have come to realize something, over the last bit of running heroics and such for gear and badges.
I kind of suck at being a ret paladin.
There are a lot of reasons for my suckitude, but regardless of how long a break I took, how much the class has changed, and how out of practice I am with being ready to raid, the TL;DR version is still that I’m a baddie. My healer instincts are still pretty good (I catch myself using Flash of Light procs on other people around me), but trying to eke out something resembling a rotation while running after an add and trying not to stand in 12 kinds of bad and keeping behind the boss? I’m terrible, and my DPS numbers show it.
This is, fortunately, not a terminal problem.
I’ve seen myself improve pretty dramatically over the last two weeks, and that’s just through a new addon, a few Sha of Anger raids and a couple of heroics. I didn’t level in the instances, and learning the fights helps a lot, which shouldn’t be that surprising either. But I’m definitely still in the “wait what button?” phase of learning all this.
I was a decent retadin at the end of Wrath, so I know I’m not a hopeless case. Eventually I’ll get back to tweaking my rotation and knowing when to blow wings and when to wait for it. My raid would prefer that to be sooner than later, I’m sure, so now that Thanksgiving is over, I’m putting some extra effort into getting geared up. I’m 4 points of iLevel short of LFR, which will also help. Gear upgrades are still making marked differences in my DPS, in a way that healing didn’t really feel. I guess because DPS is so much more… easily numbered and rankable.
If I’m honest, part of that terrifies me. I know that my raid isn’t made up of the kind of people who will tell me I’m not worth my raid spot because I’m not that good… but I also REALLY don’t want to be THAT GUY, especially after all the help I’ve gotten to get gear so late in the game. So I’m working on it. There’s no shortage of resources on the fights now, so in a lot of ways the learning is much easier than it used to be.
I’m ready to cook feasts of the grill, I’ve got gems and enchants lined up for when I get some not-PVP gear. Now if only I could find some stupid Golden Lotus (my Tiller’s Rep isn’t high enough to farm it yet), I’d even have flasks!
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November 14, 2012 – 8:59 am
On twitter, @argardes asks:
“help! I am in a 125 member guild with only 30 real players sigh they are friendly and but they suck in Ilvl”
Ok Argardes, I answered you on twitter, but this is a good thing for everyone to remember.
If you are experiencing frustration with your guild, evaluate how well it actually fits what you want in game. There are lots of guilds full of lovely people in which I probably wouldn’t fit, because I’m interested in both roleplay and (at this point) casual raiding.
I’m sure, by your question, that you like your guildmates. They’re probably fun people, and you like hanging around with them (or you wouldn’t be in their guild).
However, if your guildmates aren’t interested in progression raiding, and you are, you’re not in the right guild.
If they ARE interested in progression, and are just moving at a slower pace, it’s time for you to decide if you’re having enough fun with them to either wait or do everything you can to help them get better. Step up and start a heroic night, help coordinate professions so that people can get crafted gear to make up for holes in drops. Help with dailies and be social (I love being in vent while I’m doing dailies because it helps it feel less like a lonely chore) – group up to run content and get people more gear so their “Ilvl” is better. Your progression options may stop with LFR, but you’ll at least have some content to clear with people you like.
(However, if by “Ilvl” you’re trying to find a nice way to say that they play badly and don’t care to optimize their spec/gear/consumables, you may have to do some teaching as well. You don’t need to know every class, but encouraging people to spend time with Icy Veins guides and a target dummy can go a long way.)
Remember though, you can’t change other people. You can’t force them to like progression. While you can try to encourage them to do more high level stuff, if they’re not that interested, they’ll always feel like a hindrance, especially if you’re expecting a level of performance that they’re not up to doing. There’s a huge difference between “yeah raiding sounds like fun” and “I’m willing to put in the time to have a raid ready character”.
Also, it probably means you would be leading a raid, which is a pretty substantial undertaking. Doubly so if you’re the only one in the guild who really wants to raid.
If you decide that you’re more interested in progression, you have a few options. You could try finding a guild that would take you on as a non-guilded raider, if you really like your guildies. Or you can take your main to a raiding guild and leave your alts in your social guild (this works for lots of people).
I’m not saying you should be a jerk. Be upfront about it. Tell people you’re interested in a more progression focused guild and are looking at other guilds. It’s likely that they’ll be OK with that, even if they’ll miss you, because that’s what you want to do with your $15 a month. Through the magic of BattleTags, you can still group with them for heroics!
But don’t stay in a guild where you’re unhappy, longing for a chance to raid. This is a game, and you should be having fun playing it. There are tons of nice people who play WoW, and many of them raid. You can find a guild that suits your raiding preferences and make some new friends in the process.
TLDR version: If you’re really unhappy with your guild, either work to make it better, or find a new guild!